WFMW: Teaching kids to pick up
One of my sons (who shall remain nameless so as not to harm his chances of landing a wife someday) has trouble remembering to put his dirty clothes where they belong. Particularly his underwear. (I know — ew!)
I came up with a plan. To help teach him to be responsible for his own things, we worked out a swap of sorts. If he forgets to pick up his clothes, I say, “[Boy's name,] go pick out a toy for Mommy to throw away.” He promptly picks up his clothes — the first time!
He knows I mean business. Their toy box is overflowing, so the threat is real. You have to mean it and follow through, or this “technique” doesn’t work. But it works for us. I just wonder if it could work on husbands… 
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October 24th, 2007 at 7:13 am
My oldest son was a neatnick until he turned 13. My girl was a slob until she turned 10. I’m hoping my youngest (the current slob-in-residence) will be cured like his sister.
I have used the throw away technique and can vouch for it’s short term usefullness (it didn’t have any LASTING effect on my kiddos).
As to whether it will work on husbands…
October 24th, 2007 at 9:00 am
Nothing I’ve found works on DH, but if you find something, be sure to let me know! I told him last night, “How do you expect the kids to clean up after themselves if you don’t?”